The 120 day challenge for the over 40 gal

All dried up?

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 13:07:00 +0000

I have a system I follow in order to write, work, live. When I write something, I always leave the door open for the next thing. It might be something obvious like "next week we can talk about....", it might be a comment towards the end of a chapter. No matter what, I always know where I am going when I do something, even if it is not obvious to anybody else.

Except for today. I went to AvidDiva to write my regular post, nothing. I checked my files to see if I have something written in the past that I can use today, nada. I looked at my notebook, where I usually have ideas or thoughts that I have gathered during the week, NOT. What happened last week? Where did the inspiration go? What was I supposed to write about?

So, here I sit, without a thought on my head. For once, I am the one who needs some juice to get my morning (and my week) started. I have a business meeting this morning. I am going to concentrate on that. Hopefully by the time I get back, I will have PLENTY to talk about. I am not letting this stop me from making this day great. I hope you have a great day too.

I slept for 8 hours and did not feel guilty abot it. #win5000

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:48:00 +0000

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noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:05:00 +0000

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This has to stop

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 19:52:00 +0000

For the last year, this blog has been a second thought. The AvidDiva site is getting most of my attention, as well as my need to turn this blog into a coaching business.

As you all know, my emphasis has always been on women over 40. For some reason, this blog does not reflect this.

For the next couple of weeks I will be working on my buddy, Papo Piernas website and on my own, AvidDiva. I will also begin redisigning this blog. Keep checking this site for the latest news.

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noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 15:46:00 +0000

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noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 19:12:00 +0000

"It is time to stop complaining and start doing things to better your situation, and the outlook for yourelf and others."

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Ageless, Boundless, Limitless

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 20:06:00 +0000

I absolutely love what these ladies have to say. Ageless, boundless, limitless.

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noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 17:07:00 +0000

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Why wait?

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 09:44:00 +0000

Recently, I've been asking several questions to find out what you want to hear about. The topic of procrastination seems to be a hot button.

You told me you wanted to learn how to deal with delayed tasks. You said that you keep forgetting some of your to-do items. You mentioned you had a lot on your plate.

To read on, press here.

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noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 00:25:00 +0000

"This is yet another week that I do not post. I want to offer you this reminder, because for every day you post, you get another chance at the $5000."

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Win $5000 and inspire others

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 19:49:00 +0000

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noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 21:04:00 +0000

"Wow. Thanks for the support. Keep at it, develop some proclamations to improve your life."

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Cooking a healthy meal that includes couscous, onions, and organic veggies. #win5000

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 13:52:00 +0000

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Being organized = Progress

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 00:02:00 +0000

No organization = no progress. That's all folks.
Right now, I have this situation where I have two living quarters, a house that I pay the bank for in PR, and an apartment rental in Florida. I thought if I made a list for my husband to follow, we could tackle both having things here and there sorted out.

My procrastination (there's that word again)has made it impossible for me to keep up with what is going on in PR and then I have no furniture, car or things here either. What am I supposed to do now?

I need to get a life, stop the fear and break through. Can I do it? Do you have any advice for me? Send your suggestions. Stay tuned.

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noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 20:40:00 +0000

Cooking a healthy meal that includes couscous, onions, and organic veggies. #win5000

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Cooking a healthy meal that includes couscous, onions, and organic veggies. #win5000

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 15:44:00 +0000

"Take a chance. Get out of yourself and be an inspiration to others. Who knows, you might actually win a prize."

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Cooking a healthy meal that includes couscous, onions, and organic veggies. #win5000

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 18:38:00 +0000

"Yet another reminder that you can make a difference and win a little money. Get to it."

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noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 01:48:00 +0000

Cooking a healthy meal that includes couscous, onions, and organic veggies. #win5000

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Bought some chocolate chip cookies and did not feel guilty about enjoying them, once. #win5000

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 14:42:00 +0000

"Few chances in life for inspiring others and winning a little cash. How about it?"

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Frustration and hard work

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 02:16:00 +0000

It does not matter how well you get along with others, every once in a while you will feel frustration with some of their behavior. I would be lying if I said that I can motivate all the people around me to do what I ask them to do. And it would also be a fib if I told you hat it never gets to me.

I am sitting here, advertising furniture for sale, announcing it on every network media I can find, setting prices, writing copy. And when I see that my efforts are not met with optimism and enthusiasm, it deflates me. Am I going to let it get me down? NO. I am going to express my feelings about the subject.

For the last three years, I have changed my negative attitude and subscribed to a mentality of abundance. I truly believe that everything happens for a reason and that if you want positive results, you need positive efforts. And I expect those people around me to be in tune with that point of view. And so, on this day, September 23rd, 2009 I declare that my family and my friends are going to join in on our efforts to sell the furniture and the house successfully, in order for us to achieve our dreams.

The new 120 day challenge

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 03:51:00 +0000

I am living in Florida now. My house in Puerto Rico still has all my belongings, and my husband. The new challenge, to get him here without bringing absolutely everything, and to sell the house.

The tools to get this done: sheer determination and a lot of lists.

The goal: to sell my old furniture, which we will be showing here from time to time, pack all my belongings, send them to Florida, clean the house, fix the house, sell the house.

If you have any suggestions, they are all welcome. If you live in PR, stop by and buy some furniture. If you just want to comment, go ahead. We are waiting.

Last but not least, those two units are for sale and that hurts, because I absolutely love them. Tell me your stories. I am waiting.

Frustration

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 18:34:00 +0000

It has been 19 days since the last time I posted. There is a reason, I don't like to post when I do not have anything positive to report. Today, I am making an exception. The reason is that I figure if I get it out of my chest, I might be able to get some work done.

Frustration is a terrible thing. It can also be a hot challenge. Why am I frustrated? There are a couple of chicken and egg analogies here so stay with me:
1) you need a job to get a car, but you need car to find a job in this town.
2) when I am frustrated, I like to go for a drive to clear my head, but I don't have a car, which frustrates me and since I have no car I cannot go to far.

When people ask how am I doing, they always make the same statement: oh, well, you have public transportation. Obviously, none of those people had to go on the bus to find a job in a town where public transportation is not a priority. The two buses that go by my house are always on time (yeah!!). One drivs by once an hour and the other goes every two hours (boo!!!). That is not including that August is probably the hottest month of the summer and you end up looking like you just came out of the shower...very pathetic. However, since there are many ways to work from home, I am not really worried about finding a job. It is the proving it to the dealership part that puzzles me.

The life of a writer is an interesting one. If you are an artist, a performer or a writer, you understand how easily we block ourselves. We all have our ways of getting through it. Mine is going for a long drive. That is not happening right now, so I started walking. My energy level is up, and so is my frustration. I don't know what else to do. Getting in the bus is just not the same thing. And going to Orlando is not an option either...it takes almost four hours to get there from my house in the bus.

So what is the solution? Any suggestions? What do you do when you feel frustrated? My little rant works for me, what works for you? I am waiting for your comments.

Examining the progress

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 11:57:00 +0000

IT has been a while since I wrote, mainly because I was busy with the move and my nerves. I don't like flying, I love traveling,except for the getting in the plane part. I am happy to report that I did not freak out on the plane. In fact, I calmed others down. Great experience!

I have spent a week without TV, internet, or radio (except for my IPOD. I can tell you there is a lot to learn about the sound of silence. I think that is the name of a song. It is also a very true statement. You can't help but look at yourself and the world around you in a very different way. News don't affect you that much when you are not stuck to the tv or hearing the play by play. It was fantastic.

So as I start a new chapter in my life, I work on the idea that technology is great, if you are not addicted to it. I will keep experimenting with this idea in future posts. Let me hear what you have to say.

About to start a new chapter

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 01:00:00 +0000

The last few months just flew by and now I am about to start a new chapter in my life. Will you join me?

In the next couple of weeks you will see a couple of changes to the blog, when I move on from "moving" (pardon the pun) to life changes. It should be an interesting ride for all concerned.

As I start on this journey, something fascinating is happening. First, some background information. I am 42, my daughter is 17 and we are moving from an island in the Atlantic to Florida, where she will be starting college. I am moving on to the next chapter in my life when I stop being overbearing, overprotective mom and turn into "roommate occasionally known as Ma".

My husband said to me a while back that many people would love to be in my shoes. I am currently unemployed and it is his theory that people would love to have the guts to decide one day they want to change their whole lives and just get on a plane and start new. Oddly enough, one of my dearest friends said the exact same thing this morning. She validated his statement.

If truth be told, I am not a big fan of planes and the thought of getting in one terrifies me more than this "new life" I am working on. I am not scared about the journey of my life...I am scared of the three hour plane ride. Once I am there, I am making stuff up as I go. And no, that part does not scare me at all.

If you want to know what happens next, stay tuned.

Why is moving so hard and....

noreply@blogger.com (Avid Diva) — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 17:27:00 +0000

why am I putting myself through this again? It has been too fast, and now, 16 days before the move, there is a shortage of carton boxes in PR and I can't get my hands on a shipping box in a certain size (so that I don't overpack books) anywhere. What is a girl to do?

So today is a packing day. Why am I sitting in my office writing this message? Because I am wondering what I should pack next. This is a short message. Everything will be great and this is my inspired action. I will be ok and so will everyone around me. Life is wonderful.

Have a great day everyone.